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Financial Clarity. Mediation Support. Peace of Mind.
Divorce is a legal event, yes—but at its core, it’s a financial turning point. Whether you're filing, negotiating, or already in the courtroom, the financial choices you make today will shape your future.
I’m Melissa Gragg, a divorce financial mediator and business valuation expert serving Missouri and Illinois. I help individuals, couples, and attorneys organize complex financial information, mediate settlements, and prepare court-ready valuations—so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
You deserve a settlement that reflects your reality—not just your fear.
Corporate Valuation & Divorce Mediation Services
Most people enter divorce without a financial roadmap. I give you one. Start with “A Guide to Empowered Divorce” to give you an idea of what to expect in divorce mediation and divorce litigation or court.
Here’s how I help:
Divorce Mediation: Sit down (virtually or in person) with a neutral third party to resolve financial issues, without going to court.
Business Valuation: Whether you own a small business or a multimillion-dollar company, I’ll determine its true value for equitable distribution.
Financial Analysis: I provide detailed reports on income, expenses, lifestyle, and future cash flow—used in calculating support and dividing assets.
Asset Tracing: I uncover the source of assets to identify what’s marital and what’s separate—including gifts, inheritance, or premarital funds.
Expert Witness Testimony: If your case goes to trial, I deliver expert reports and courtroom testimony that judges and attorneys can trust.
Deposition Prep & Document Review: I coach you through what to expect in high-conflict litigation and organize the financial facts.
Who Needs Guidance?
Women preparing for a financially complex divorce
Couples choosing mediation over litigation
Attorneys needing neutral valuations or expert analysis
Business owners seeking to protect or divide assets fairly
Individuals representing themselves and needing support to stay empowered
You don’t need to know everything. You just need to be prepared. I’ll help you get there.
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Purchase for $17 & Take Power Back
♟️ Power Moves in Divorce
Tactical Tools for Women Who Refuse to Be Silenced
Power Moves in Divorce is your strategic playbook for navigating divorce like a queen on the chessboard—not a pawn. This guide is for women ready to protect what matters most: their voice, their finances, and their future.
Inside, you'll discover:
🛡️ High-impact negotiation strategies to level the playing field
💣 Tactical responses for narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and financial control
📈 Ways to build leverage even if you're not the one who holds the money
🧩 Smart moves for mediation, litigation, and everything in between
✍️ Prompts and power scripts to help you respond—not react
This guide isn’t about fighting—it’s about outsmarting, outmaneuvering, and staying emotionally steady in moments that count most.
Are you READY?
Steps to Get Started?
Check out the video below…
Step 1: Schedule a Free Strategy Call
We’ll discuss your situation, goals, and whether valuation or mediation is the best next step.
Step 2: Gather and Organize Your Financials
I’ll provide tools, checklists, and guided support to gather your income, business, and asset documents.
Step 3: Choose Your Path
Whether you need a business valuation, mediation session, or full financial analysis, we build a custom plan that moves your case forward.
You Save Money—By Knowing the System
Hiring every expert individually is expensive. The Circle connects you to specialists who teach you what questions to ask and what documents to prepare before paying for one-on-one advice.
Plus, The Divorce Allies will help you:
Build your own settlement offer (with templates and strategy)
Avoid legal rabbit holes by being proactive, not reactive
Know when to stand your ground and when to trade the rook for a checkmate
You’ll leave each session with more clarity—and fewer billable hours ahead.
♟️ What Makes This Different? TheDivorceAllies.com
You’re not being told what to do.
You’re being taught how to lead yourself through the storm.
This is the only Circle where you’re seen, supported, and strengthened through your divorce and beyond.
Work Together with ONE Expert
The only way to get divorced is by fighting in court - hiring two lawyers and two expert - arguing over every detail - hating each other in the end.
NOT TRUE.
This is how litigation is portrayed in the news and on TV, but lately people want to get divorced in a way that preserves their wealth, provides a nice lifestyle for two separate households and maybe even protects their kids. If you want to have a bit more control over your future and not leave it up to a judge, you have options.
Schedule a meeting today
Services
We provide mediation services in St. Louis, MO and all other locations throughout the United States.
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